The Unbearable Lightness of Being Day Four: Back to Soul and Body
Tereza's existential heading, "Body and Soul," returns with all its vertiginousness (a verifiable word) and weight. Please post your question on Book 4 here.
Tomas and Tereza feel love for each other even though their relationship is based on dependence. Tomas feels responsible for protecting and comforting Tereza because to him, she is frail like a child. However, in order to satisfy his longing for physical love, Tomas also has many mistresses. He goes to great lengths to hide things from her, but Tereza does not only know this, but it is the root of her weakness. Is Tereza’s dream that takes place on Petrin Hill an embodiment of her weakness in relation to Tomas or to her own body? In other words, is Tereza unable to go through with her execution because she is too weak to listen to Tomas or because she does not want to be weak anymore?
"But what a monstrous soul it would have to be if it reflected that body, that rack for four pouches" (138). Does Kundera conclude here that our body is a mirror to our soul? How does this connect to Tereza's "I" when she looks in the mirror? Is Kundera assuming that if we're ugly, we have an ugly soul and if we're beautiful, we have a beautiful soul? Do you agree or disagree with this statement? Why or why not?
While Tereza is walking Karenin home she notices a group of children burying a crow alive. She decides to take the crow home to care for it. When she walks into the house she demands Tomas to hold Karenin as she proceded to the bathroom to care for the crow whom she was "unable to take her eyes off of" (159). What is the reasoning behind Tereza's obsession with the crow? What is it about the crow that suppresses her weak side and gives her the ability to tell Tomas what to do instead of the other way around? Is there something that is burying Tereza alive?
Question from Rebecca Sai: In this section, it kind of seems like Tereza has lost her mind. She has sex with an engineer, but she can not be like Tomas and just shake it off as nothing--she contemplates and obsesses over the act and the engineer. Can Tereza ever be light? Or will she just forever be a heavy, burdensome individual that cannot bear lightness?
In part 4 of the book, Tereza works at a bar which is where a former ambassador lives in hiding. In his room are a variety of pictures but the one that is described as being in the most important position is a picture of President Kennedy and himself. Later Tereza and Tomas go to a town in the country side and find the names of the streets and buildings have been changed to Russian ones. What does the different setting of western and Russian influences mean? How does Kennedy "watching" the ambassador in his room compare with the secret police that watch all the citizens?
Tereza's attempt to confirm Tomas's theory that "love and sexuality are different" ended up sending her soul back into her bowel. The very soul that Tomas' called forth to the surface of her skin is sent back. This makes me wonder why she screams to deafen her senses, to blind her soul when she's making love with Tomas. Wouldn't she want to reveal her soul to Tomas to have a stronger connection with him, hence not being viewed as just another body?
Up until this part of the book, Tereza is a very "heavy" character in basically all ways. One of those ways being sex. Unlike Tomas, she couldn't go out and have sex outside of love. In this section, however, she does exactly that with the engineer. She says that she separated her soul from the event, but in all actuality if the man's voice hadn't been so off-putting she very well could have fallen in love with him. Is Tereza just completely incapable of becoming more "light?" How will this sexual encounter change how she acts from now on, if at all?
When Tereza first looks at herself in the mirror, she is ashamed of her body and is frightened of being naked. But after having sex with the engineer, she looks in the mirror again in the sauna and is obsessed with her body now. "She desired her own body," and was excited about seeing it. Why is she now proud of her body, and what do you think it means?
When Tereza has sex with the engineer, she spits in his face. What exactly does this show in regards to weight when compared to her experience with Tomas? Furthermore, what significance does the crow that Tereza dug up have on herself?
We see the motif again of having your eyes open, or seeing during intercourse with Tereza and the engineer. Is Tereza's way of seeing it similar to Sabina? What is the significance of seeing in this case? Why does it make her more attracted to the engineer despite being repulsed by him?
Attempting to live in lightness, Tereza has an affair with an engineer. However, during and after this scene, Tereza seems to live with more weight than before. She even considers the idea that the engineer is a spy. Since Kundera does not assure us whether the engineer is actually a spy or not, describe how he gives us a dose of the paranoia that people lived in during this time.
Tereza connects the body and the soul, thus is automatically weighed down. Is her act of having sex with someone other than Tomas an attempt to become light? what does she realize about herself during this time? How does she change after this?
Death is a topic that cause both conflicts (light and heavy, body and soul). Teresa sees death as a separation of her soul from her body. Sabina is weighed down by the news of death and thinks the soul is trapped under the tombstones. What is death; is it the release of the soul and a way to become light or is it permanent heaviness?
Tereza attempts to reach a state if lightness by having sex with the engineer, but only succeeds in burying herself in heaviness, eventually leaving her begging for death. Why does Tereza feel that death will bring her soul lightness. How does this compare to Sabina's view on death and the soul?
It seems like the concept of death is somewhat of a coping mechanism in book 4. What role does death play and how does it relate to Tereza's decision to sleep with the engineer?
How does Tereza's interesting encounter with the engineer and her reflections upon it depict her fear of the body? What in particular causes her to feel reduced to just a mere body?
Tereza is consumed by the idea of the body, and feels suppressed by her own. Why does she view her body as reaching it worst state after having sex and we does she feel compelled to empty her body of 'waste' right after?
Why are characters deeply attracted to the opposite light/weight spectrum? (Heavy Tereza attracted to light Thomas, etc). The light encounter with the engineer exemplifies this. Does this property extend to Sabina?
After having intercourse with the engineer, Tereza begins to see her body and soul as separate entities, truly appreciating her body for what it is. She yearns to have more sex with the engineer, to admire her body once again. Is she finally able to truly separate her soul from her body? Is this her soul's way of achieving lightness?
Tomas and Tereza feel love for each other even though their relationship is based on dependence. Tomas feels responsible for protecting and comforting Tereza because to him, she is frail like a child. However, in order to satisfy his longing for physical love, Tomas also has many mistresses. He goes to great lengths to hide things from her, but Tereza does not only know this, but it is the root of her weakness. Is Tereza’s dream that takes place on Petrin Hill an embodiment of her weakness in relation to Tomas or to her own body? In other words, is Tereza unable to go through with her execution because she is too weak to listen to Tomas or because she does not want to be weak anymore?
ReplyDelete"But what a monstrous soul it would have to be if it reflected that body, that rack for four pouches" (138). Does Kundera conclude here that our body is a mirror to our soul? How does this connect to Tereza's "I" when she looks in the mirror? Is Kundera assuming that if we're ugly, we have an ugly soul and if we're beautiful, we have a beautiful soul? Do you agree or disagree with this statement? Why or why not?
ReplyDeleteWhile Tereza is walking Karenin home she notices a group of children burying a crow alive. She decides to take the crow home to care for it. When she walks into the house she demands Tomas to hold Karenin as she proceded to the bathroom to care for the crow whom she was "unable to take her eyes off of" (159). What is the reasoning behind Tereza's obsession with the crow? What is it about the crow that suppresses her weak side and gives her the ability to tell Tomas what to do instead of the other way around? Is there something that is burying Tereza alive?
ReplyDeleteQuestion from Rebecca Sai: In this section, it kind of seems like Tereza has lost her mind. She has sex with an engineer, but she can not be like Tomas and just shake it off as nothing--she contemplates and obsesses over the act and the engineer. Can Tereza ever be light? Or will she just forever be a heavy, burdensome individual that cannot bear lightness?
ReplyDeleteIn part 4 of the book, Tereza works at a bar which is where a former ambassador lives in hiding. In his room are a variety of pictures but the one that is described as being in the most important position is a picture of President Kennedy and himself. Later Tereza and Tomas go to a town in the country side and find the names of the streets and buildings have been changed to Russian ones. What does the different setting of western and Russian influences mean? How does Kennedy "watching" the ambassador in his room compare with the secret police that watch all the citizens?
ReplyDeleteTereza's attempt to confirm Tomas's theory that "love and sexuality are different" ended up sending her soul back into her bowel. The very soul that Tomas' called forth to the surface of her skin is sent back. This makes me wonder why she screams to deafen her senses, to blind her soul when she's making love with Tomas. Wouldn't she want to reveal her soul to Tomas to have a stronger connection with him, hence not being viewed as just another body?
ReplyDeleteUp until this part of the book, Tereza is a very "heavy" character in basically all ways. One of those ways being sex. Unlike Tomas, she couldn't go out and have sex outside of love. In this section, however, she does exactly that with the engineer. She says that she separated her soul from the event, but in all actuality if the man's voice hadn't been so off-putting she very well could have fallen in love with him. Is Tereza just completely incapable of becoming more "light?" How will this sexual encounter change how she acts from now on, if at all?
ReplyDeleteWhen Tereza first looks at herself in the mirror, she is ashamed of her body and is frightened of being naked. But after having sex with the engineer, she looks in the mirror again in the sauna and is obsessed with her body now. "She desired her own body," and was excited about seeing it. Why is she now proud of her body, and what do you think it means?
ReplyDeleteWhen Tereza has sex with the engineer, she spits in his face. What exactly does this show in regards to weight when compared to her experience with Tomas? Furthermore, what significance does the crow that Tereza dug up have on herself?
ReplyDeleteWhat is the significance of Sophocles' Oedipus in the engineer's room?
ReplyDeleteWe see the motif again of having your eyes open, or seeing during intercourse with Tereza and the engineer. Is Tereza's way of seeing it similar to Sabina? What is the significance of seeing in this case? Why does it make her more attracted to the engineer despite being repulsed by him?
ReplyDeleteAttempting to live in lightness, Tereza has an affair with an engineer. However, during and after this scene, Tereza seems to live with more weight than before. She even considers the idea that the engineer is a spy. Since Kundera does not assure us whether the engineer is actually a spy or not, describe how he gives us a dose of the paranoia that people lived in during this time.
ReplyDeleteTereza connects the body and the soul, thus is automatically weighed down. Is her act of having sex with someone other than Tomas an attempt to become light? what does she realize about herself during this time? How does she change after this?
ReplyDeleteDeath is a topic that cause both conflicts (light and heavy, body and soul). Teresa sees death as a separation of her soul from her body. Sabina is weighed down by the news of death and thinks the soul is trapped under the tombstones. What is death; is it the release of the soul and a way to become light or is it permanent heaviness?
ReplyDeleteTereza attempts to reach a state if lightness by having sex with the engineer, but only succeeds in burying herself in heaviness, eventually leaving her begging for death. Why does Tereza feel that death will bring her soul lightness. How does this compare to Sabina's view on death and the soul?
ReplyDeleteIt seems like the concept of death is somewhat of a coping mechanism in book 4. What role does death play and how does it relate to Tereza's decision to sleep with the engineer?
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ReplyDeleteHow does Tereza's interesting encounter with the engineer and her reflections upon it depict her fear of the body? What in particular causes her to feel reduced to just a mere body?
ReplyDeleteTereza is consumed by the idea of the body, and feels suppressed by her own. Why does she view her body as reaching it worst state after having sex and we does she feel compelled to empty her body of 'waste' right after?
ReplyDeleteWhy are characters deeply attracted to the opposite light/weight spectrum? (Heavy Tereza attracted to light Thomas, etc). The light encounter with the engineer exemplifies this. Does this property extend to Sabina?
ReplyDeleteHow does Tereza's encounter with the woman in the sauna relate to her general disgust of the human body and her own insecurity?
ReplyDeleteAfter having intercourse with the engineer, Tereza begins to see her body and soul as separate entities, truly appreciating her body for what it is. She yearns to have more sex with the engineer, to admire her body once again. Is she finally able to truly separate her soul from her body? Is this her soul's way of achieving lightness?
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